Abantu abaningi bafuna ukukholelwa ukuthi kukhona umlingo. Mhlawumbe wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi imilingo ibonakale kakhulu esikhathini esedlule, futhi amasiko amaningi athandwa namuhla. Ukuqagela ngekhefu ngaphansi komcamelo ukuqagela okungcono kakhulu, uma ukholelwa inganekwane. Kuze kube yilolu suku, amaKristu agubha uKhisimusi - iholidi elifanekisela ukuza kobuKristu bukaKristu futhi ngezinsuku ezingcwele zichitha ukubhula okuningi. Ngezansi kunezinye izindlela zokuqagela ngesikhamo ngaphansi komcamelo kule ndaba.
Indlela yokuqagela ngokufanele uKhisimusi ngesikhamo ngaphansi komcamelo?
Ukuze usebenzise inhlanhla egcwele inhlanhla, noma yiziphi izinto ezingadlala, kodwa kulesi sihloko sizocabangela ukuqagela ebusuku ngesikhamo.
Amanye amathiphu wokubhula okulungile:
- Uma uqhuba inhlanhla, kufanele usondele ngokujulile ngalolu daba - awukwazi ukuhleka usulu nemimoya, kungenjalo isiphetho singadutshulwa kakhulu. Njengomthetho, wonke umuntu uyazi ngalokhu.
- Ngaphambi kokuba wenze lokhu kubhula, kubalulekile ukuqothula izinwele bese ususa kuzo zonke izakhi ezengeziwe: ama-band elastic, izinwele zezinwele, izinwele zezinwele, izikhumba njalonjalo. Izinwele kufanele zihlanzwe.
- Ebusuku, kungcono ukugqoka izingubo ezikhululekile, lapho ungahamba khona ngokukhululekile. Uma kukhona amafindo ezigqoke izingubo, khona-ke kufanele akhululwe.
- Ukusuka emzimbeni kuyadingeka ukususa yonke imihlobiso: amasongo, amaketanga, namacici, kufanele futhi asuswe futhi isiphambano kumele sibe yisimiso esiyimpoqo.
- Ukubheka izinwele kufanele kube okusha futhi kuhlanzekile.
Ukubikezela i-Fortune
Kunezindlela ezintathu ezithandwayo kakhulu zokuqagela ngesikhamo:
- Le ndlela yokuqagela ikhona isikhathi eside, ngosizo lwayo umuntu akanakufunda kuphela igama le-betrothed, kodwa futhi uyayibona. Ukuze uphuphe i-suzeon, kufanele ubeke ubusika ubusuku ngobusuku ngaphansi komcamelo uphinde ulale kuwo, ngaphambi kokukhuluma amagama alandelayo: "Ngokujulile-ungene emzimbeni, uze kimi ugqoke uphinde ungihlanganise nami. Ngakho-ke kube njalo! "Futhi ekugcineni, kufanele usho ukuthi" Amen "kathathu. Uma kwenzeka intombazane enomyeni oqothula izinwele, kusho ukuthi uzoshada phakathi nonyaka.
- Ukuqhuba lokhu ukubhula, kufanele uthenge inhlanganisela yemvelo yemithi. Ngaphambi kokulala, intombazane kufanele imele phambi kwesibuko ngesikhamo bese isho amagama alandelayo: "Sithandekayo sami, othandekayo wami, Sisokryly, ngiphupha ngawe ebusuku futhi ngifaka izinwele zakho ngekhefu lami." Ekugcineni, kufanele usho igama elithi "Amen". Okulandelayo, ukubhula, udinga ukubeka ikhekhe ngaphansi komcamelo bese ulala. Ngemuva kokusa ekuseni, qiniseka ukuthi ubona ukuthi kukhona izinwele ezivela kuso. Uma kunjalo, intombazane izoba nomuntu oyintandokazi phakathi nonyaka.
- Ukubhula okulandelayo kufanele kwenziwe ekuseni. Le ntombazane, ukuba ivuselelwe kufanele ichithe izikhathi ezithile ezinyaweni ikhefu. Ngemuva kokuqedela inqubo, kufanele ubale ukuthi zingaki izinwele ezihlala kulesi sikhala bese ubheka ngezansi kwamanani:
- uma kungekho izinwele ezisele ezitsheni, inhlanhla ibhekwa ukuthi ayiphumelelanga, futhi kuyodingeka iqhutshwe futhi;
- kukhona izinwele kuphela, kusho ukuthi,
ukuthi intombazane izoba nomcimbi nomthandi wayo; - kunezinwele ezimbili ezisele, kusho ukuthi intombazane izothola umlayezo ovela kumthandekayo wakhe, kungaba kokubili okubi futhi okuhle;
- kunezinwele ezintathu ezisele, kusho ukuthi intombazane kufanele ilalelisise imvelo yayo, ngaphandle kwalokho umncintiswano angabonakala;
- Uma kunezinwele ezine esikhwameni, kusho ukuthi kungenzeka kube nezinkinga noma izinkinga esikhathini esizayo;
- kunezinwele ezinhlanu noma ngaphezulu, lokhu kusho ukuthi ukubhula kufanele kwenziwe ngesikhathi esisodwa.